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CHOOSE: A Framework for Decision Paralysis

Many of my clients who deal with OCD, anxiety, or perfectionism will describe decision-making as overwhelming. Even the most minor decisions can feel incredibly daunting, which leads to avoidance, procrastination, and a feeling of “stuckness.” I like to label this feeling of “stuckness” as decision paralysis. 

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OCD: Your Identity on Trial

Obsessive Compulsive Disorder (OCD) gets its nickname, the “doubt” disorder because it can make you feel like there is a dark doubt cloud over you. The feeling of doubt can attach to anything, and that is why there are so many different themes of OCD.

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Hidden OCD: Purely-Obsessive

Obsessive Compulsive Disorder (OCD) is a condition that involves intrusive thoughts, images, or bodily sensations that cause an uncomfortable emotion (e.g., anxiety, guilt, shame, etc..), which leads one to engage in compulsive behavior (e.g., mental, behavioral) to alleviate that uncomfortable emotion.

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Five Steps for Effective Communication

We must remember that our perception of a situation is primarily based on our beliefs, emotions, past traumas, values, etc. This is why we only try to use facts when describing a situation we want to resolve.

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Unpacking Perfectionism

If an individual has characteristics of perfectionism, this does not mean they think they are perfect. In actuality, it is quite the opposite.

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Living WITH OCD

Obsessive Compulsive Disorder (OCD) is a condition that involves intrusive thoughts, images, or bodily sensations that cause an uncomfortable emotion (e.g., anxiety, guilt, shame, etc..), which leads one to engage in compulsive behavior (e.g., mental, behavioral) to alleviate that uncomfortable emotion.

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